Five Ways To Gain A New Perspective by Suzanne Scheideker Cook
“The best ideas emerge when very different perspectives meet.” - Frans Johansson
I was often tasked to make information that was coming from different operational entities into a unified voice. To aid in this, I would send out painstakingly detailed instructions on what was needed including the deadline. It never (and I mean never) failed that when I received the requested information, everyone had their own view of what my instructions meant and had responded accordingly.
At first, I would be infuriated but when I calmed down, something miraculous happened. Looking at the submittals objectively, there was something different in each that added great value to the entire project. Of course, this meant that I had to go back and request more information. Doing this was more work and sometimes I thought “Why bother?” But combining the different perspectives made for an outstanding project. More importantly, everyone involved saw that their perspective was valued and included. Here are five tips that I learned on how to recognize and value the perspectives that others bring to the table.
Remove yourself from the project and/or the conversation. Instead of getting angry or defensive, ask yourself “Why does this person/entity have this view?”
Listen to the different perspective carefully. Take notes so that you can come back later and reflect on the discussion. This also works when reading contributions from others with a different take on the issue.
When you are reviewing your notes, ask: “Using this perspective, what will give additional value to the project?”, “Why does it add value?”, and “How can this perspective be incorporated?”
When working on a project, actively seek input from various levels within your organization, community, school, etc.
Remember you are limited by your own experience. Others have experience and knowledge that you do not possess. Value and use these perspectives.
Personal Challenge: When listening or reading a different viewpoint, think of a beach ball. If you look at a beach ball from one angle, it looks red. But if you were looking at a beach ball from the other side, it would be blue. Remember, it takes all the stripes of different colors to make a beach ball. Practice incorporating the beach ball philosophy this week.
